Help Your Children Protect Themselves From Cyberbullying

        Cyberbullying is essentially bullying using cell phones or social media.  What can parents do to protect their children from these types of bullies?

        The Child Mind Institute, a leading independent nonprofit in children’s mental health, has an excellent online article about cyberbullying and what parents can do to help their children.  Some points covered are:

  • How can parents know if their child is being cyberbullied?  Because children often are embarrassed or ashamed when they are bullied, they may not tell their parents.  Parents usually find out after the situation has gotten worse.  Talk with your children frequently and be open to discuss topics that are challenging them without judging them.

  • When should parents intervene?  It is important that parents gather facts before they intervene.  Talk with your child about what has happened.  Come up with a plan together.

  • What can a child do when being cyberbullied? The article recommends taking many actions such as turning off the computer and walking away; not responding or retaliating; blocking the bully; saving and printing out bullying messages; and talking with friends and trusted adults.  

  • How can cyberbullying be reported? If it happens using a form of social media, contact the company and report what has happened.  If it happens by text, contact the cellar company, and report it as well as change the cell number.  If the bullying continues, seek the help of others such as your children’s friends, coaches, and teachers.

        The article has many links to other online resources, so please take the time to learn more about cyberbullying.  As parents become educated about it, the sooner they will be able to talk to their children and discover what has been happening so that they can help their children protect themselves and avoid suffering.

 

To read the entire article and many relevant links, please go to:

https://childmind.org/article/help-kids-deal-cyberbullying/