Many children develop fears, which can then turn into phobias. These may involve insects, dogs, thunder and lightning, flying on a plane and darkness, for example. As a parent, what can you do to help your children
Experts say that fears can develop around the ages of 6 to 12 and be a normal part of growing up. Parents are encouraged to address these fears in the following ways:
Talk with your children about their fears. Let them know that you are there for them.
Do not belittle, criticize or ridicule your children for having a fear.
Do not force your children “suck it up” and be brave. They must have the opportunity to discuss what they are feeling and have your support and encouragement to overcome their fears.
Protect them when possible. For example, if your children are afraid of large dogs, make sure that you know whether there are any in your neighborhood. If there are, do not take your children to that area. Perhaps you can speak with your neighbor about your children’s fear and when the time is right, introduce the dog to your children.
A verse that I often used with my children is the one on today’s blog – 2 Timothy 1:7 - and you can use it too. Go over what the words mean so they can easily understand the verse. Help them memorize it. Say it with them several times during the day so it gets into their spirits.
If you try many different methods but your children are still suffering from various fears, consider getting professional counseling. Your children need to be able to deal with their fears.
For more information, please click here: Understanding Childhood Fears and Anxieties