For God did not give us a spirit of timidity or cowardice or fear, but [He has given us a spirit] of power and of love and of sound judgment and personal discipline [abilities that result in a calm, well-balanced mind and self-control].

2 Tim. 1:7 AMP

We are all experiencing the quarantines resulting from the Coronavirus or COVID-19. There is so much news about it, much of which is inaccurate and just scary. Your children are out of school and concerned about what is happening. For Christian parents, it is very important to use information being provided by experts and lace it with pertinent Bible verses. Here is some information to help explain in a comprehendible way about this virus to alleviate fears and anxieties. I rely on several excellent online articles and hope you read them in their entirety for further information.

Experts say, first and foremost, do the research and allay your own anxieties. By doing so, you will prepare yourself with all the facts, not fiction or false assumptions. Speak calmly, armed with your research material. Start the discussion with asking your children what they have heard. So much erroneous information is on social media, so be prepared that your children have heard many frightening things that are totally wrong.

Gear your talk to the developmental age of your youngest child, as by doing so, even your older children will understand. When the older child asks questions, you can also provide age appropriate answers. Alternatively, you can break the children up into age groups.

Explain what should be done as a daily routine and enforce it. Do demonstrations. Properly washing hands, for example, is critical. Demonstrate how they wash their hands. Not touching friends’ hands is also very important – show them how to bump elbows instead.

Focus on being hopeful and confident, not fearful. Share Bible verses, as the one in today’s blog and Psalm 91, to establish that God does not want us to have fear, but to put our trust and confidence in Him and His protection. As Christians, we must be the vessels of faith, courage and truth during this time of turmoil. We are the light of the world! (John 8:12)

National Public Radio created a comic book type story for children to better understand the virus. That comic book is now being used with children all over the world, translated into many different languages, and even a short video was created. This is a very helpful tool for children to learn more.

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Helping Your Children with Fear of the Dentist

Last week, I wrote about helping your children with handling their fears. One fear that must have a blog post of its own is going to the dentist. Your children’s teeth should be regularly checked, but what can you do to make the visit easier on them? Here are a few ideas from dentists themselves:

Find a child-friendly dentist. Look for a waiting room that has an area for children to play. Enquire as to how they deal with children who are afraid.
Communicate with your children. Let them know that they will be visiting the dentist, so they are prepared. Do not surprise them.
Explain to them the importance of having their teeth checked regularly by a professional.
Speak with your dentist about your children’s phobia ahead of time. A dentist experiences this fear frequently and should have many good suggestions for you.
Take a favorite toy to the visit, if the dentist approves.
Speak with your children during the visit in a calm voice to reassure them that you are there for them.
Give positive feedback to encourage them to continue with good behavior.

It’s difficult for parents to observe their children suffering with fears. Being patient and understanding are key.

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